kevins_sis

as a lesbian, katya zamolodchikova is very confusing

kevins_sis

why aren't there shows with casual lesbians i don't need to watch the struggle of coming out i've seen it and lived it i wanna watch them in a enemies-to-lovers fake relationship where one of them is a billionaire and the other comes from nothing i don't care ab the gayness give me the angst

kevins_sis

daily NECESSARY reminder to ANYONE who falls under the trans umbrella:
          
          you do not need to have traditionally feminine features to be beautiful.
          you do not need to have traditionally masculine features to be handsome.
          you do not need to assign gendered adjectives to yourself, because there is NO SUCH THING AS A NURTURING NOSE! THERE IS NO SUCH THING AS EYEBROWS WITH GOOD LEADERSHIP SKILLS!
          
          gender has NOTHING to do with your physical appearance, your clothing, or your mannerisms. it's a social construct that allows people to assign labels to make themselves feel comfortable - and it is COMPLETELY VALID for you to not identify with a label you were assigned or any label at all.
          
          gender is your mind and souls' truest expression of themselves, and if that means transitioning and surgery to help your physical appearance align with that, then that is completely valid.
          
          BUT
          
          you can't have feminine features, and you can't have masculine features. you can only have features that speak to a feeling. so, with that in mind, this is my reminder to you that YOU DO NOT NEED TO TRANSITION TO BE TRANS.
          
          YOU DO NOT HAVE TO LOOK MASCULINE TO BE A MAN, YOU DON'T HAVE TO LOOK FEMININE TO BE A WOMAN, AND YOU DON'T HAVE TO BE ANDROGYNOUS TO NOT BE EITHER.
          
          thank you for coming to my ted talk, ily.
          (also harry if you're seeing this YES GENDER EXPRESSION BABYYYYY)

kevins_sis

@larry_928 i'm so glad :) just remember that no matter what you're putting out to the world, you're still transmasc. you could be wearing a bright pink princess style dress with tons of tulle and cap sleeves and you'll still be transmasc. gender identity ≠ gender expression.
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Diamondgirl2007

@kevins_sis I'm not even transgender but the way I've been wanting to express this to trans people for so long. Everything you said is just perfection. 
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larry_928

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@kevins_sis thank you so fucking much for this, honestly, I try and tell myself all the time that I don't need to transition or to do 'masculine' things to be masc but I find myself pushing myself into fitting the 'correct roles' and it's tiring. So hearing things like this from someone else is so liberating
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kevins_sis

i DO NOT UNDERSTAND AS IT WAS. is it supposed to be ab olivia? why does it use HER instead of YOU in all those references. is it ab her kids? WHY IS THE KID AT THE BEGINNING BRITISH. why are there kinda marriage bells but also kinda christmas bells? WHAT IS GOING ON

17blackcherry

THE KID IS HIS GOD DAUGHTER 
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